Positive Emotions

Positive Emotions Can Lead To A Better and More Satisfying Life

Positive psychology researcher Barbara Fredrickson is known for her broaden-and-build theory of positive emotions, which maintains that when people experience positive emotions on a daily basis, this experience enhances their lives in ways that grow and expand over time. People who regularly experience more positive emotions eventually see increases in personal resources and, in turn, greater life satisfaction, all of which can help relieve stress. One way in which people can find these positive experiences in a simple and accessible way is to practice a loving kindness meditation, where they focus on tender feelings toward themselves, loved ones, and, eventually, people who are in their broader social circle. 
 

(Loving kindness may bring more lasting benefits in the area of positive emotions because, while many harbingers of "feel-good feelings", like uplifting films or candy, may bring a temporary lift in mood, these methods may lose some of their potency with repetition. Meditation, on the other hand, brings strengthened benefits with practice--the more you do it, the more you benefit!) 

Somewhat recently, Fredrickson showed the effectiveness of loving kindness meditation with a study where she assessed a group of 139 working adults, half of whom were assigned to a 9-week program in loving kindness meditation. Through the course of 9 weeks, the changes were gradual, but significant. The practice of loving kindness meditation led to shifts in people's daily experiences of a wide range of positive emotions, including love, joy, gratitude, contentment, hope, pride, interest, amusement, and awe. These changes in emotions were linked to increases in a wide range of personal resources, including mindful attention, self-acceptance, positive relations with others, and good physical health. Additionally, these changes had a real impact on participants' lives; participants experienced greater life satisfaction and fewer symptoms of depression. This research highlights the importance and effectiveness of creating the daily experience of more positive emotions. Using the practice of loving kindness meditation to do this, you can create long-term gains that can make a genuine difference in your life.

Weekly "Stress" Blog: Type A Stress Relief

Type A Stress Relief

 

People with "Type A" personality traits can experience greater-than-average levels of stress. Being time-conscious, competitive, and impatient, as many Type A people are, can create stress in relationships, jobs, and other areas of life. (Not sure how much you fit the typical "Type A" pattern? Take the Type A Self Test and see.)

Type A traits can also create obstacles for stress management. Some of the more effective stress management techniques can feel frustrating for someone who has a more intense personality. For example, the quiet stillness of meditation can feel difficult for those who are impatient, competitive, and used to making every second count at work.

However, certain techniques can work quite well for those with a Type A personality, and other techniques require just a few adjustments to work well for type a stress relief. While it might be nice to soften some of the sharper edges of the Type A personality, it's not necessary to change who you are before you can start managing your stress. The following Type A stress relievers can work particularly well for those with Type A personalities, and can be wonderfully effective stress relievers for others as well.

Use Music

Listening to music is a simple Type A stress relief trick that takes little effort. When you’re driving, put on some of your favorite music (instead of catching up on phone calls) and you can enjoy the ride (no more road rage) and arrive feeling relaxed. If you need to slow down, play slower-paced music; if you need to energize, play more upbeat tunes.
_{See this article on music therapy for more on how and why this works.}

Get Exercise

Those experiencing Type A stress may find it difficult to slow down for stress relief—so why not speed up? Exercise carries many health and stress management benefits. (Read about stress and exercise here.) It’s perfect for those with Type A traits because it offers a paradigm where the more you rush (on a treadmill, for example), the less stressed you'll feel. Specific exercise regimens like martial arts, running, or even dancing can provide a great aerobic workout and a sense of accomplishment. Exercise classes can offer social connection as well as a little positive peer pressure to push you to stay on track.
_{Read more on different types of exercise for stress relief.}

Try Expressive Writing

If you have a Type A personality, you probably like to be more active than passive. An active way to examine and express your thoughts is to start a journaling practice, or start expressive writing regularly. Writing about your feelings—especially if they're intense and it’s done in a time-limited way—can help you to get them out of your head. (See more on this type of expressive writing.) Writing about your plans to fix a situation can also help you feel less stressed and more able to let go of worries. (See more on journaling away your worries, too.) Writing in a gratitude journal can help you to maintain a greater focus on the positive events that happen throughout your day. There are several ways to use writing for stress relief, and they can be helpful for relieving Type A stress.
_{Read more on journaling.}

Take Time For Hobbies

One issue that Type A people run into is a difficulty balancing work with the rest of their life. It can be difficult scheduling in time to just relax, but scheduling enjoyable activities can be a way around the tendency to over-schedule to the point of being over-stressed and lacking in balance. Scheduling activities you find relaxing can, out of necessity, require letting some things go, so this can be another route toward forcing yourself to cut out things in your life that don’t serve you. If you tie your hobbies into a group structure, it will be more difficult to decide at the last minute that you're "too busy" to take the time for your hobbies. Start a knitting circle, take a painting class, or join a band. Make hobbies part of your plan.
_{Read more about stress relief hobbies.}

Stay Connected

Being Type A can mean you're so busy with work that you don't have as much time to enjoy the people in your life. But being socially isolated can cause stress, and having a few supportive people in your life can sometimes work wonders Type A stress. Making it a point to stay connected with people doesn't have to take a lot of time, and having people "there for you" when you need it is well worth the time invested. For those with Type A traits, sometimes being connected means working on communication skills and remembering of the value of relationships. It can also mean just taking the time to meet up with friends, or reminding yourself to take a few minutes to say hi to the people around you. This is a stress relief technique that may not feel like one, but it's an area to focus on that can really help.
_{Read more on cultivating relationships.}

Do Some Yoga

If you really do like the idea of meditation, but just can’t bring yourself to sit quietly for that long without feeling stressed from all your thoughts and your need to stay active, I suggest trying yoga. Yoga brings many great health benefits, and can incorporate some meditation features (as well as breathing exercises), but may provide enough activity and focus that it feels calming and quieting, but without the type of silence that feels deafening. Also, going to a yoga studio provides a group environment that may make it easier for you to stay focused and continue making the time in your schedule to attend regularly.
_{Read more on yoga for stress relief.}

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Week 1: RevAbs

I got a bright idea to blog about my fitness journey with RevAbs. I always have a tough time getting through a full 90 day program, but I'm going to get through this one. I have been sick for the past two weeks, but this week I pushed through my workouts and made it through. RevAbs is hard, but it feels good to push myself through the workouts!

Here are the workouts I did this week:
Monday - Total Strength and Mercy Abs
Tuesday - Fire Up Your Abs
Thursday - Power Intervals
Friday - Fire Up Your Abs
Saturday - Power Intervals and Hip Hop Hustle
Sunday - Total Strength and Mercy Abs


The program is challenging, but I felt good that I accomplished the entire first week. Brett Hoebel is engaging and entertaining...a great combination! I did do the workouts slightly out of order, but I was able to get them all in. The goal for week two...do all six workouts...in order!


Well, my workouts were on track, but what about my eating? Well...my eating was GREAT!!! I stuck with the nutrition plan included in the workout program, and I have been feeling great all week! I'm looking forward to week two being over, so I can start eating fruits again. This week I only ate lean proteins and veggies. Lots of salads with grilled shrimp. Carrots and pea pods were my staple. Chicken, shrimp, and pork were the lean proteins on my list. I also made sure I had a serving of nuts every day. I will admit, I'm having a cheat meal for lunch today...angus burger at this amazing restaurant in Delavan. I am going to have it without a bun, but "cheat" a little bit with some home-made french fries. It's gonna be so good!


So...until next week, keep hitting play and tracking your food!

Weekly Nutrition Newsletter: Quick and Easy Shrimp Recipe

Quick and Easy Shrimp Recipe

Shrimp meets the definition of quick and easy. Low in fat and calories, it makes a great starting point for a healthy meal. Some people worry about shrimp's high cholesterol content, but it seems we should not be overly concerned because they are low in saturated fat, unlike most other high-cholesterol foods. So be sure to include shrimp as part of your low fat diet.

Low Fat Southwestern Shrimp

The great thing about shrimp is that they're quick and easy to cook. The biggest mistake people make is to overcook them so that they turn out tough and rubbery. Enjoy this southwestern shrimp dish with a side dish of rice.

Ingredients:

• 1 pound medium shrimp, peeled, deveined, tail on
• 1 tsp chili powder
• 1 tsp cumin
• Juice of 1 large lime
• 1 medium red onion, chopped (about 1 1/2 cups)
• 1 jalapeno pepper, finely chopped (about 2 tbsp)
• 2 medium tomatoes (about 6 ounces), chopped
• 1/4 cup freshly chopped cilantro

Preparation:

Place shrimp in a medium bowl. Sprinkle chili powder and cumin over them; add lime juice. Stir well, cover and refrigerate for 15 minutes.

Coat a large nonstick skillet with nonstick cooking spray. Sauté onions and jalapeno over medium heat until onions are softened—about 2-3 minutes. Add shrimp, chopped tomato and cilantro. Cook shrimp for three minutes, until pink and opaque, turning them occasionally. Serve over hot whole-grain rice.

Serves 4. 

Per Serving: Calories 162, Calories from Fat 22, Total Fat 2.4g (0.4g), Cholesterol 170mg, Sodium 183mg, Carbohydrate 10.5g, Fiber 2.2g, Protein 24.5g

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